PHILIPPINE  Ladies: Introductions, Guidelines, Tours, &  K-1 Visas Completed

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Frequently Asked Questions:
 

1.   WHY  SHOULD I CHOOSE SESA INC,   RATHER THAN ANOTHER COMPANY,   OR NONE??

ANS:  EXPERIENCE, SERVICE, &  RESULTS --- Anyone can put you in contact with Filipinas,  but they are SELDOM   SCREENED  regarding backgrounds, as are ours.  SESA's 1st concern is helping you  find that special lady --- AND for  your fiancee to reach USA  in a  QUICK &  SAFE MANNER---    Time and again, our clients  ACHIEVE these goals. Our experience is over 26 years.  We advocate high ethical standards---in YOUR interests, as well as the Filipinas'.   We've helped turn situations that seemed complicated at first, into "Happy Endings". We give you PERSONAL SERVICE,  that helps  you AVOID RISKS  present-- when men venture out on their own-- or deal  with other websites/  firms  (eg. see para #4, below).    NOTE:  If you have found us AFTER  you already are in relationship with  a Filipina who seems best for you --- we  invite you  STILL CONTACT  US, and discuss how our services will better assure you a  quicker and happier outcome.

 

2.   ARE  THE  VALUES  TO  MY  LIFE  WORTH  THE  TIME  AND  EXPENSES??    

Ans: YES! Your “total values” EXCEED expenses many times over.  –  FIRST, CONSIDER  "YOUR COSTS"  of continuing  “as is”  where TIME can seem endless – and consider your other alternatives

If you've been NEVER-MARRIED, well YOU know best, reasons why you've been unable to find that special person, with assurance of a MUTUALLY lasting & loving relationship. Your “costs”, are YEARS passing without sharing them in a happy marriage---  IF you later marry a USA lady,  odds of later divorce & LOSS OF MONIES--- are over 50 percent!
 

DIVORCED men, (as was I), know the emotional costs of failed marriage(s); as well as financial losses –-- These costs can be 20x  or more,  all  fees related to contacting & meeting Filipinas, and a  fiancee coming to USA.   Secondly, USA divorce statistics for remarriages are even higher than first-time marriages-- and with additional expenses.

WIDOWED men, need be cautious of local ladies seeking marriage as a source of money; and/or just companionship, rather than MUTUAL LOVE. Numerous widowers, have found a LOYAL, CARING, younger lady from Philippines, as their answer!   Your alternative is pursuing someone locally, who's likely fixed in her ways, materialistic, often talking of her past; and/or NOT as compatible as was your wife before.

FOR MEN who are in, or reach SOCIAL SECURITY AGE --- a lesser  known point is--- if you have one or more children, either by birth with your Filipina wife, and/or her prior child living with you --- US Social Security Administration will give you monthly payments. This is IN ADDITION to your own monthly SSA amount received ---- AND  will continue until any such child is 18 yrs old.

SOME FILIPINAS have COMPLETED COLLEGE courses, and can obtain good paying USA jobs in these areas. Even Filipinas working at WALMART (as many do) can earn MORE than 2X your total costs in their first year!

YOUR COSTS ARE SPREAD OUT over a long period of time, making them easier to absorb.  Under “Consultation”, service #1, we will help you save $100s, to over  $1,000.   Fees for getting started with introductions, and taking service #1, are minimal.  From there, when/if you decide to pursue a nice Filipina as your "life-partner", remaining expenses are over a number of months.

WISDOM TO REMEMBER -- The same men who "shell out" from 5k to 15k+ for a USED CAR, or over 20k for a NEW CAR---- may not have pursued a Filipina-partner, thinking total costs were too high! (?). Total costs of our last 100+ successful men, were far LESS than price of a good used car----and think of it! Autos are a "Depreciating Asset", and later, will be worth  very little.   With  a  PHILIPPINE  WIFE,  you have "a treasure" not available in USA,  where  YOUR  VALUES  should keep growing!
 

REALITY / CHECK -- Once his fiancee is in USA, and after marriage -- NOT A SINGLE MAN to date, has said money or time spent was too much!   We've successfully worked with men from ALL income brackets, to include those with disabilities ----- AND we are willing to work with you!

SUMMARYIf you have NOT BEEN  SUCCESSFUL  in USA,  in finding your "Special  Lady"  Why  'stay on the same path'?? --- Try in the Philippines, & thru us. ---In  most cases, you'll find ladies with little to NO  PAST "Hangups",  who can easily adjust to YOUR lifestyle.   Feel welcome to call me anytime to discuss our program.

 

LADIES IN THE PHILIPPINES - ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS MOST OFTEN ASKED
3.  ARE THERE MEN WHO ESTABLISH  FRIENDSHIPS AND TRY TO  DO EVERYTHING  "ON THEIR OWN" ?

Ans:  YES,   BUT-- I've never heard of anyone (myself included-- 16 yrs ago),  who, IN ADVANCE, understood ALL procedures, AND had  best advice. Men who "go independently", usually end up: (a)  Paying MORE MONEY in the long run; and/or  (b) Having longer waiting times for their Filipinas to reach USA; and/or (c) Encounter unexpected problems with their intended fiancee, or elsewhere, during their Philippine trip; and/or  (d)  Reduced likelihood of her successful adjustment & marriage, once  in USA.   Our  Service #1  CAN  and  HAS made  key differences in which Filipina  our clients  asked  for marriage,  AND better assured,  they have a HAPPY one!!


4. DO MEN TRAVEL TO  PHILIPPINES,  ATTEMPTING TO MEET FILIPINAS WITH WHOM THEY'VE  HAD NO PRIOR CONTACT?

Ans: 
YES - and many  fail to achieve their goals.  These men do not recognize importance of having advanced friendships with at least a few Filipinas, AND specific guidelines they should  have, when getting to know  them.  Some companies sponsor "TOURS",  where men are introduced to Filipinas  AFTER  arrival---either on a "one-after-another"  basis; or groups of them at a party.   Other men simply venture to Philippines with intention of meeting marriage-prone  ladies in shopping malls, parks, or night clubs.   We  DO NOT RECOMMEND  ANY of  these avenues- -- e.g. your time span for  making a "fiancee commitment"   is reduced to  DAYS!  This is insufficient when considering a future partner, even in USA, much less from another country. Misunderstandings and even misrepresentations are likely to occur; and, reduce your probability of a successful, lasting outcome.  NOTE:  Immigrations officials in both  USA and Philippines   DO NOT take a favorable viewpoint to cases where couples cannot verify there has been an extended relationship.

 

5. DOES  SESA  HAVE  CONCERN  ABOUT  THE  FILIPINAS?

Ans:  YES---  and it is our  FOREMOST  CONSIDERATION - -     You'll  notice   we  DO NOT exhibit   sex-oriented  photos, ---  as we've seen in some  other similar- subject websites, ---- which  MISREPRESENT the respectable image of the majority of Filipinas.   SESA's objective, thru  its  various services, is to assist  BOTH  Filipinas and our clients, IN A SAFE MANNER.   SESA Inc rarely makes an annual profit---and its Director receives NO salary.   We operate more as a "humanitarian effort"---by helping to advance legal channels,  AND offer unique  SERVICES  for couples,  who have had  EXTENDED relationships, and  seek  marriage in USA.  WITHOUT such channels,  AND  SERVICES   we provide, the consequences for both Filipinas, and American men, attempting similar goals---can & have been  quite negative--- including  SCAMS  of men;  and,  EXPLOITATION  of ladies.   While  social matters, decisions,  and  outcomes of related actions are  responsibility of individuals involved – SESA Inc. DOES NOT  accept men as full-service clients, under age 25 yrs, AND  until  they have filed an application for membership  & are approved.  We are aware of concern by Philippine government and USA Immigrations that persons participating in fiancee - visa actions, have stable backgrounds  and acceptable  motives.  We do our very best to uphold these concerns.  We  reserve the right to decline business with men whose profiles appear questionable insofar as the welfare of Philippine ladies.  A man's  race, ethnic background, and/or religion, will  NOT be a basis for such declinations.

 

 

 

Ladies In Philppines  
Answers To Questions Most Often Asked
 


QUES #1 - WHAT IS THEIR  APPEAL?

Ans:  Filipinas offer qualities,  seldom found elsewhere ... That is: attractive, slender, understanding, kind, & loving ... and as wives, are faithful & loyal. This is why friendship and  marriage to Filipinas has occurred  with 10's of thousands of men from North America, Europe & Australia.  Age differences from your's are OK.

 

QUES #2 - DO THESE LADIES SEEK  MARRIAGE JUST AS AN EASY WAY TO REACH AMERICA?

Ans:  The vast majority" of Filipinas look to men such as you or I, only for love, understanding, a lasting marriage & a happy home. Living in the USA is just one added advantage. They believe we are more stable, responsible, caring, and respectful of women than are their average in-country men. SESA consultation-- Service #1, gives you written guidelines designed to help you identify IN ADVANCE any Filipinas whose motives may be questionable -

 

QUES #3 - ARE THERE SERIOUS LANGUAGE OR CULTURAL DIFFERENCES?

Ans:  Following the Spanish-American War in 1903, Philippines was under USA sovereignty for next 43 years, and much of their present government is patterned after ours. Filipinas though, have maintained stronger family values and other desirable cultural traits, not as visible in America. Philippines is the ONLY Asian country where citizens  WRITE and SPEAK ENGLISH  fluently. Over 90 percent of Filipinas are Christian. For all these reasons, FILIPINAS  ADAPT  BETTER  to life in USA & marriage to American men, than do ladies from other Asian countries, Russia or South America.

 

QUES #4 - IS THERE DATA TO SUPPORT SUCCESS RATE OF MARRIAGES BETWEEN FILIPINAS & AMERICAN MEN?

 Ans:  Yes. U.S. Government surveys confirm divorces between Filipinas & American men to be about 17 percent, whereas divorce rate in USA  for 1st time marriages is over 50%.  Even when  a USA divorce involves a native Filipina, the man more often was the LESS STABLE partner.

The Philippine "Family Code" for the female is: "One man, one life" - and this teaching has resulted in a more supportive & dedicated marriage partner for you.

 

QUES #5 - IS MY AGE, INCOME, APPEARANCE OR DIVORCE STATUS  IMPORTANT TO THE FILIPINA?

Ans:  It is remarkable  to  discover that NONE OF THESE FACTORS serve as a barrier to a Filipina's feelings for you. They just want you to be kind, loving, faithful, etc. For men in their 40's, 50's, 60's & above, Filipinas present an IDEAL OPPORTUNITY for most likely that last chance in life to RECAPTURE romance & lasting happiness, with a pretty, YOUNGER  lady – a situation VERY unlikely to occur WITHIN  USA. Men in their 20's & 30's who successfully pursue Filipinas for eventual marriage, may well be AVOIDING one or more later divorces, and the financial & emotional costs, as many of us "older guys" have painfully endured!! -----  For "SENIOR-AGE MEN" desiring a comfortable lifestyle, WITHOUT the HASSLES, and prior years-related "emotional baggage" that most divorced or widowed women may bring along - the caring, understanding & patient, never-married Filipina, can  be a "one-in-a-kind" choice still available for you!

 

QUES #6 - OK!   EVERYTHING SOUNDS  VERY  GOOD!!    ---   HOW MUCH WILL ALL THIS COST?

Ans:   GREAT  NEWS!   Rates for our  introductions and  5 primary services are  LOW  and  REASONABLE.   We offer you 5 NEEDED  Services, for LESS than what most  ATTORNEYS  charge just to prepare your immigrations case--- a service within our 5, that we do BETTER  THAN THE  LAWYERS---because  we're  more knowledgeable  of applicable items that will help get your case approved AND faster.  TOTAL  COSTS will vary, depending upon YOUR  preferences--- but are still LESS than price of a good 'used car'. (See question #2, at TOP of page).    We have dealt successfully with men from all walks of life----- and can help YOU.      

 

QUES #7 - WILL I EVENTUALLY NEED TRAVEL TO PHILIPPINES?   IF SO, CAN THIS BE  ARRANGED??  

Ans:  Yes / Yes!  The key word  is "eventually".  We do not want this US   government "immigrations requirement" to distract you from taking your first steps NOW.  You'll  discover how appealing these ladies really are. Unlike  "pressure -type firms", we want you to TAKE YOUR TIME cultivating  friendships, and see if this is really what you want. Usually,  one's confidence and desire  increases--   and most men are then  eager to complete the added steps soon!  Via SESA, men have travelled alone to Philippines with NO problems.  We can arrange for your Discount-fare airline' tickets,  Reservations at a safe & quality Hotel;  and our in-country Tour  Guide will meet and assist you day by day. Under service #1, we keep in telephone contact with your guide and YOU.  As a 2nd  popular option -- SESA director travels with 1 to 3 men,  2 times per year, to Cebu City on our "Escorted Tours".   Plz see paragraphs 6 & 7, under "Additional Services" in the  "SERVICES" page of this website.

 


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