Frequently Asked Questions:
1. WHY SHOULD I CHOOSE SESA INC, RATHER THAN ANOTHER COMPANY, OR NONE??
ANS: EXPERIENCE, SERVICE, & RESULTS --- Anyone can put you in contact with Filipinas, but they are SELDOM SCREENED regarding backgrounds, as are ours. SESA's 1st concern is helping you find that special lady --- AND for your fiancee to reach USA in a QUICK & SAFE MANNER--- Time and again, our clients ACHIEVE these goals. Our experience is over 26 years. We advocate high ethical standards---in YOUR interests, as well as the Filipinas'. We've helped turn situations that seemed complicated at first, into "Happy Endings". We give you PERSONAL SERVICE, that helps you AVOID RISKS present-- when men venture out on their own-- or deal with other websites/ firms (eg. see para #4, below). NOTE: If you have found us AFTER you already are in relationship with a Filipina who seems best for you --- we invite you STILL CONTACT US, and discuss how our services will better assure you a quicker and happier outcome.
2. ARE THE VALUES TO MY LIFE WORTH THE TIME AND EXPENSES??
Ans: YES! Your
“total values” EXCEED expenses many times over. – FIRST, CONSIDER "YOUR COSTS" of continuing “as is” where TIME can seem endless – and consider your other alternatives
If you've been NEVER-MARRIED,
well YOU know best, reasons why you've been unable to find that
special person, with assurance of a MUTUALLY lasting & loving
relationship. Your “costs”, are YEARS passing without sharing
them in a happy marriage--- IF you later marry a USA lady, odds
of later divorce & LOSS OF MONIES--- are over 50 percent!
DIVORCED men, (as was I),
know the emotional costs of failed marriage(s); as well as financial
losses –-- These costs can be 20x or more, all fees related to contacting & meeting
Filipinas, and a fiancee coming to USA. Secondly, USA divorce
statistics for remarriages are even higher than first-time
marriages-- and with additional expenses.
men, need be cautious of local ladies seeking marriage as a source of
money; and/or just companionship, rather than MUTUAL LOVE. Numerous
widowers, have found a LOYAL, CARING, younger lady
as their answer! Your
pursuing someone locally, who's likely fixed in her ways,
materialistic, often talking of her past; and/or NOT as compatible as
was your wife before.
FOR MEN who
are in, or reach SOCIAL SECURITY AGE --- a lesser known point is--- if
you have one or more children, either by birth with your Filipina
wife, and/or her prior child living with you --- US Social Security
Administration will give you monthly payments. This is IN
ADDITION to your own monthly SSA amount received ---- AND will continue
until any such child is 18 yrs old.
have COMPLETED COLLEGE courses, and can obtain good paying USA jobs
in these areas. Even Filipinas working at WALMART (as many do) can
earn MORE than 2X your total costs in their first year!
YOUR COSTS ARE
SPREAD OUT over a long period
of time, making them easier to absorb. Under
#1, we will help you save $100s, to over $1,000. Fees for getting started with introductions, and
taking service #1, are minimal. From there, when/if you
decide to pursue a nice
Filipina as your "life-partner", remaining expenses are
over a number of months.
same men who "shell out" from 5k to 15k+ for a USED CAR, or
over 20k for a NEW CAR---- may not have pursued a Filipina-partner,
thinking total costs were too high! (?). Total costs of our last
100+ successful men, were
far LESS than price of a good used car----and
think of it! Autos are a "Depreciating Asset", and later,
will be worth very little. With a PHILIPPINE WIFE, you have "a
available in USA, where YOUR VALUES should keep growing!
-- Once his fiancee is in USA, and after marriage -- NOT A SINGLE MAN
to date, has said money or time spent was too much! We've
successfully worked with men from ALL income brackets, to include
those with disabilities ----- AND we
are willing to work with you!
you have NOT BEEN SUCCESSFUL in USA, in finding your "Special Lady" Why 'stay on the same path'?? --- Try
in the Philippines, & thru us. ---In most cases, you'll find ladies with little to NO PAST "Hangups", who can easily adjust to YOUR lifestyle. Feel welcome to
call me anytime to discuss our program.
3. ARE THERE MEN WHO ESTABLISH FRIENDSHIPS AND TRY TO DO EVERYTHING "ON THEIR OWN" ?
Ans: YES, BUT-- I've never heard of anyone (myself included-- 16 yrs ago), who, IN ADVANCE, understood ALL procedures, AND had best advice. Men who "go independently", usually end up: (a) Paying MORE MONEY in the long run; and/or (b) Having longer waiting times for their Filipinas to reach USA; and/or (c) Encounter unexpected problems with their intended fiancee, or elsewhere, during their Philippine trip; and/or (d) Reduced likelihood of her successful adjustment & marriage, once in USA. Our Service #1 CAN and HAS made key differences in which Filipina our clients asked for marriage, AND better assured, they have a HAPPY one!!
4. DO MEN TRAVEL TO PHILIPPINES, ATTEMPTING TO MEET FILIPINAS WITH WHOM THEY'VE HAD NO PRIOR CONTACT?
Ans: YES - and many fail to achieve their goals. These men do not recognize importance of having advanced friendships with at least a few Filipinas, AND specific guidelines they should have, when getting to know them. Some companies sponsor "TOURS", where men are introduced to Filipinas AFTER arrival---either on a "one-after-another" basis; or groups of them at a party. Other men simply venture to Philippines with intention of meeting marriage-prone ladies in shopping malls, parks, or night clubs. We DO NOT RECOMMEND ANY of these avenues- -- e.g. your time span for making a "fiancee commitment" is reduced to DAYS! This is insufficient when considering a future partner, even in USA, much less from another country. Misunderstandings and even misrepresentations are likely to occur; and, reduce your probability of a successful, lasting outcome. NOTE: Immigrations officials in both USA and Philippines DO NOT take a favorable viewpoint to cases where couples cannot verify there has been an extended relationship.
5. DOES SESA HAVE CONCERN ABOUT THE FILIPINAS?
Ans: YES--- and it is our FOREMOST CONSIDERATION - - You'll notice we DO NOT exhibit sex-oriented photos, --- as we've seen in some other similar- subject websites, ---- which MISREPRESENT the respectable image of the majority of Filipinas. SESA's objective, thru its various services, is to assist BOTH Filipinas and our clients, IN A SAFE MANNER. SESA Inc rarely makes an annual profit---and its Director receives NO salary. We operate more as a "humanitarian effort"---by helping to advance legal channels, AND offer unique SERVICES for couples, who have had EXTENDED relationships, and seek marriage in USA. WITHOUT such channels, AND SERVICES we provide, the consequences for both Filipinas, and American men, attempting similar goals---can & have been quite negative--- including SCAMS of men; and, EXPLOITATION of ladies. While social matters, decisions, and outcomes of related actions are responsibility of individuals involved – SESA Inc. DOES NOT accept men as full-service clients, under age 25 yrs, AND until they have filed an application for membership & are approved. We are aware of concern by Philippine government and USA Immigrations that persons participating in fiancee - visa actions, have stable backgrounds and acceptable motives. We do our very best to uphold these concerns. We reserve the right to decline business with men whose profiles appear questionable insofar as the welfare of Philippine ladies. A man's race, ethnic background, and/or religion, will NOT be a basis for such declinations.
Ladies In Philppines
Answers To Questions Most Often Asked
QUES #1 - WHAT IS THEIR APPEAL?
Ans: Filipinas offer qualities, seldom found elsewhere ... That is: attractive, slender, understanding, kind, & loving ... and as wives, are faithful & loyal. This is why friendship and marriage to Filipinas has occurred with 10's of thousands of men from North America, Europe & Australia. Age differences from your's are OK.
QUES #2 - DO THESE LADIES SEEK MARRIAGE JUST AS AN EASY WAY TO REACH AMERICA?
Ans: The vast majority" of Filipinas look to men such as you or I, only for love, understanding, a lasting marriage & a happy home. Living in the USA is just one added advantage. They believe we are more stable, responsible, caring, and respectful of women than are their average in-country men. SESA consultation-- Service #1, gives you written guidelines designed to help you identify IN ADVANCE any Filipinas whose motives may be questionable -
QUES #3 - ARE THERE SERIOUS LANGUAGE OR CULTURAL DIFFERENCES?
Ans: Following the Spanish-American War in 1903, Philippines was under USA sovereignty for next 43 years, and much of their present government is patterned after ours. Filipinas though, have maintained stronger family values and other desirable cultural traits, not as visible in America. Philippines is the ONLY Asian country where citizens WRITE and SPEAK ENGLISH fluently. Over 90 percent of Filipinas are Christian. For all these reasons, FILIPINAS ADAPT BETTER to life in USA & marriage to American men, than do ladies from other Asian countries, Russia or South America.
QUES #4 - IS THERE DATA TO SUPPORT SUCCESS RATE OF MARRIAGES BETWEEN FILIPINAS & AMERICAN MEN?
Ans: Yes. U.S. Government surveys confirm divorces between Filipinas & American men to be about 17 percent, whereas divorce rate in USA for 1st time marriages is over 50%. Even when a USA divorce involves a native Filipina, the man more often was the LESS STABLE partner.
The Philippine "Family Code" for the female is: "One man, one life" - and this teaching has resulted in a more supportive & dedicated marriage partner for you.
QUES #5 - IS MY AGE, INCOME, APPEARANCE OR DIVORCE STATUS IMPORTANT TO THE FILIPINA?
Ans: It is remarkable to discover that NONE OF THESE FACTORS serve as a barrier to a Filipina's feelings for you. They just want you to be kind, loving, faithful, etc. For men in their 40's, 50's, 60's & above, Filipinas present an IDEAL OPPORTUNITY for most likely that last chance in life to RECAPTURE romance & lasting happiness, with a pretty, YOUNGER lady – a situation VERY unlikely to occur WITHIN USA. Men in their 20's & 30's who successfully pursue Filipinas for eventual marriage, may well be AVOIDING one or more later divorces, and the financial & emotional costs, as many of us "older guys" have painfully endured!! ----- For "SENIOR-AGE MEN" desiring a comfortable lifestyle, WITHOUT the HASSLES, and prior years-related "emotional baggage" that most divorced or widowed women may bring along - the caring, understanding & patient, never-married Filipina, can be a "one-in-a-kind" choice still available for you!
QUES #6 - OK! EVERYTHING SOUNDS VERY GOOD!! --- HOW MUCH WILL ALL THIS COST?
Ans: GREAT NEWS! Rates for our introductions and 5 primary services are LOW and REASONABLE. We offer you 5 NEEDED Services, for LESS than what most ATTORNEYS charge just to prepare your immigrations case--- a service within our 5, that we do BETTER THAN THE LAWYERS---because we're more knowledgeable of applicable items that will help get your case approved AND faster. TOTAL COSTS will vary, depending upon YOUR preferences--- but are still LESS than price of a good 'used car'. (See question #2, at TOP of page). We have dealt successfully with men from all walks of life----- and can help YOU.
QUES #7 - WILL I EVENTUALLY NEED TRAVEL TO PHILIPPINES? IF SO, CAN THIS BE ARRANGED??
Ans: Yes / Yes! The key word is "eventually". We do not want this US government "immigrations requirement" to distract you from taking your first steps NOW. You'll discover how appealing these ladies really are. Unlike "pressure -type firms", we want you to TAKE YOUR TIME cultivating friendships, and see if this is really what you want. Usually, one's confidence and desire increases-- and most men are then eager to complete the added steps soon! Via SESA, men have travelled alone to Philippines with NO problems. We can arrange for your Discount-fare airline' tickets, Reservations at a safe & quality Hotel; and our in-country Tour Guide will meet and assist you day by day. Under service #1, we keep in telephone contact with your guide and YOU. As a 2nd popular option -- SESA director travels with 1 to 3 men, 2 times per year, to Cebu City on our "Escorted Tours". Plz see paragraphs 6 & 7, under "Additional Services" in the "SERVICES" page of this website.
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