Frequently Asked Questions:
1. WHY SHOULD I CHOOSE SESA INC, RATHER THAN ANOTHER COMPANY, OR NONE??
ANS: EXPERIENCE, SERVICE, & RESULTS --- Anyone can put you in contact with Filipinas, but they are SELDOM SCREENED regarding backgrounds. SESA's 1st concern is helping you find that special lady --- AND for your fiancee to reach USA in a QUICK & SAFE MANNER--- Our clients ACHIEVE these goals. Our company started over 30+ years ago. Your Director has over 57 yrs of experience in Asia. We advocate high ethical standards---in YOUR interests, and the Filipinas'. We've helped turn situations that seemed complicated at first, into "Happy Endings". We give you PERSONAL SERVICE, that helps you AVOID RISKS, present when men venture out on their own-- or deal with other websites/ firms (eg. see para #4, below). NOTE: If you are already in a relationship with a Filipina who seems best for you --- we invite you STILL CONTACT US, and see how our services better assure you a quicker and happier outcome.
2. ARE THE VALUES TO MY LIFE WORTH THE TIME AND EXPENSES? YES! See below!
NEVER-MARRIED? Then YOU know best, reasons why you've been unable to find that special person, with the assurance of a MUTUALLY lasting & loving relationship. Your “costs”, are YEARS passing without sharing them in a happy marriage--- IF you later marry a USA lady, odds of later divorce & LOSS OF MONIES--- are over 50 percent!
DIVORCED men, (as was I), know the emotional costs of failed marriage(s); as well as financial losses –-- These costs can be 20x and more, all fees related to contacting & meeting Filipinas, and a fiancee coming to the USA. Secondly, USA divorce statistics for remarriages are even higher than first-time marriages.
WIDOWED men, should be cautious of local ladies, who seek marriage as a source of money; and/or just companionship, rather than MUTUAL LOVE. Numerous widowers have found a LOYAL, CARING, younger lady from the Philippines, as their answer! Your alternative is pursuing someone locally, who's likely fixed in her ways, materialistic, often talking of her past; and/or NOT as compatible as was your wife before.
FOR MEN who are in, or reach SOCIAL SECURITY AGE --- a less known point is--- if you have one or more children, either with your Filipina wife and/or her prior child living with you --- US Social Security Administration will further you with monthly payments. This is IN ADDITION to your own monthly SSA amount received ---- AND will continue until any such child is 18 yrs old.
MANY FILIPINAS have COMPLETED COLLEGE courses and can obtain good-paying USA jobs in these areas. Even Filipinas working at WALMART (as many do) can earn MORE than 2X your total costs in their first year!
YOUR COSTS ARE SPREAD OUT over a long period of time, making them easier to absorb. Under “Consultation”, service #1, we will help you save $100s, to over $1,000. Fees for getting started with introductions, and taking service #1, are minimal. From there, when/if you decide to pursue a nice Filipina as your "life-partner", remaining expenses are over several months.
WISDOM TO REMEMBER -- The same men who spend from 7k to 15k+ for a USED CAR, or over 20k for a NEW CAR---- may not have pursued a Filipina-partner, thinking total costs were too high! (?). Total costs of our last 100+ successful men were far LESS than the price of a good used car----and think of it! Autos steadily LOSE value. With a PHILIPPINE WIFE, you have "a treasure" not available in the USA, where YOUR VALUES should keep growing! Once his fiancee is in the USA, and after marriage --- NOT A SINGLE MAN to date has said money or time he spent was too much.
SUMMARY – If you have NOT BEEN SUCCESSFUL in finding your "Special Lady" in the USA--- Why 'stay on the same path'?? --- Try our Intro offers on Home Page --- You'll find ladies with few - to - no past involvements who can easily adjust to YOUR lifestyle. We've successfully worked with men from ALL income brackets, to include those with disabilities --- AND we are willing to work with YOU! Email and/or call us anytime to discuss our program.
4. DO MEN TRAVEL TO PHILIPPINES, ATTEMPTING TO MEET FILIPINAS WITH WHOM THEY'VE HAD NO PRIOR CONTACT?
3. ARE THERE MEN WHO ESTABLISH FRIENDSHIPS AND TRY TO DO EVERYTHING "ON THEIR OWN"?
Ans: YES, BUT-- I've never heard of anyone (myself included-- 20+ yrs ago), who, IN ADVANCE, understood ALL procedures, AND had the best advice. Men who "go independently", usually end up: (a) Paying MORE MONEY in the long run; and/or (b) Having longer waiting times for their Filipinas to reach USA; and/or (c) Encounter unexpected problems with their intended fiancee, during their Philippine trip; and/or in USA. Our CONSULTATION, Service #1, CAN and HAS made key differences in which Filipina our clients asked for marriage, AND better assured, their future was a HAPPY ONE.
Ans: YES - and many fail to achieve their goals.
These men do not recognize the importance of having advanced friendships with at least a few Filipinas, AND specific guidelines when getting to know them. Some companies sponsor "TOURS", where men are introduced to Filipinas AFTER arrival. Other men venture to the Philippines with the intention of meeting marriage-prone ladies in shopping malls, parks, or night clubs. We DO NOT RECOMMEND ANY of these avenues
- -- e.g. your time span for making a "fiancee commitment" is reduced to DAYS! This is insufficient when considering a future partner, even in the USA, much less from another country. Misunderstandings and misrepresentations are likely to occur. NOTE: Immigrations officials in both USA and Philippines DO NOT take a favorable viewpoint to cases where couples cannot verify there has been an extended relationship 5. DOES SESA HAVE CONCERN ABOUT THE FILIPINAS? Ans: YES--- and it is our FOREMOST CONSIDERATION -
- You'll notice we DO NOT exhibit sex-oriented photos, --- as we've seen in some other websites, ---- which MISREPRESENT the respectable image of the majority of Filipinas. SESA's objective, thru its services, is to assist BOTH Filipinas and our clients, IN A SAFE MANNER. SESA Inc operates without annual profits----and its Director receives NO salary. Our operations qualify as a "humanitarian effort"---- AND offer unique SERVICES for couples, with genuine relationships-- who seek marriage in the USA.
WITHOUT these LEGAL channels via US/CIS, and services we provide, the consequences
for both Filipinas, and American men, attempting such goals---can be quite negative--- including SCAMS of men; and, EXPLOITATION of ladies. Social matters, decisions, and outcomes are the responsibility of individuals involved – SESA Inc. DOES NOT accept men as full-service clients, UNTIL they have filed an application for membership, and are approved. We are aware of the concern by the Philippine government and USA Immigrations
that persons participating in fiancee - visa actions have stable backgrounds and legal motives. We do our best to uphold these concerns. We reserve the right to decline business
with men whose profiles appear questionable insofar as the welfare of Philippine ladies - - - - - and/or whose association with us does not appear to be in the best interests of the intended client and/ or this company.
A man's race, ethnic background, and/or religion, will NOT be a basis for such declinations.
Ladies In Philippines Answers To Questions Most Often Asked
QUES #1 - WHAT IS THEIR APPEAL?
Ans: Filipinas offer qualities, seldom found elsewhere ... That is attractive, slender, understanding, kind, & loving ... and as wives, are faithful & loyal. This is why friendship and marriage to Filipinas have occurred with 10's of thousands of men from North America, Europe & Australia. Age differences from yours are OK.
QUES #2 - DO THESE LADIES SEEK MARRIAGE JUST AS AN EASY WAY TO REACH AMERICA?
Ans: The vast majority" of Filipinas look to men such as you or I, only for love, understanding, a lasting marriage & happy home. Living in the USA is just one added advantage. They believe we are more stable, responsible, caring, and respectful of women than are their average in-country men.
QUES #3 - ARE THERE SERIOUS LANGUAGE OR CULTURAL DIFFERENCES?
Ans: Following the Spanish-American War in 1903, the Philippines was under USA sovereignty for the next 43 years, and much of their present government is patterned after ours. Filipinas though, have maintained stronger family values and other desirable cultural traits, not as visible in America. Philippines is the ONLY Asian country where citizens WRITE and SPEAK ENGLISH fluently. Over 90 percent of Filipinas are Christian. For all these reasons, FILIPINAS ADAPT BETTER to life in USA & marriage to American men, than do ladies from other Asian countries, Russia or South America.
QUES #4 - IS THERE DATA TO SUPPORT SUCCESS RATE OF MARRIAGES BETWEEN FILIPINAS & AMERICAN MEN?
Ans: Yes. U.S. Government surveys confirm divorces between Filipinas & American men to be about 18 percent, whereas the divorce rate in the USA for 1st-time marriages is over 50%. SESA Inc client divorce rates are LESS THAN 10 percent. The Philippine "Family Code" for the female is: "One man, one life" - and this teaching have resulted in a more supportive & dedicated marriage partner for you.
QUES #5 - IS MY AGE, INCOME, APPEARANCE OR DIVORCE STATUS IMPORTANT TO THE FILIPINA?
Ans: NONE OF THESE FACTORS serve as a barrier to a Filipina's feelings for you. They just want you to be kind, loving, faithful, etc. For men in their 40's, 50's, the '60s & above, Filipinas present an IDEAL OPPORTUNITY for likely that last chance in life to RECAPTURE romance & lasting happiness, with a pretty, YOUNGER lady – a situation VERY unlikely to occur WITHIN USA. Men in their 20's & 30's who successfully pursue Filipinas for eventual marriage, may well be AVOIDING one or later divorces, and the financial & emotional costs, as many of us "older guys" have endured!! ----- For "SENIOR-AGE MEN" desiring a comfortable lifestyle, WITHOUT the HASSLES, and prior years-related "emotional baggage" that most divorced or widowed women may bring along - the caring, understanding & patient, never-married Filipina, can be a "one-in-a-kind" choice still available for you!
QUES #6 - OK! EVERYTHING SOUNDS VERY GOOD!! --- HOW MUCH WILL ALL THIS COST?
Ans: GREAT NEWS! Rates for our introductions and 5 primary services are LOW and REASONABLE. We offer you 5 NEEDED Services, for LESS than what most ATTORNEYS charge just to prepare your immigration case---- We take more time with each part of your K-1 fiancee case, get them approved faster. TOTAL COSTS --- are LESS than the price of a good 'used car'. (See Paragon #2, above, "WISDOM ---- ----"). We have dealt successfully with men from all walks of life----- and can help YOU.
QUES #7 - WILL I EVENTUALLY NEED TRAVEL TO PHILIPPINES? IF SO, CAN THIS BE ARRANGED??
Ans: Yes / Yes! The keyword is "eventually". We do not want this US government "immigration step" to distract you from taking your first steps NOW. You'll discover how appealing these ladies really are. Unlike "pressure -type firms", we want you to TAKE YOUR TIME cultivating friendships --- and if having an attractive, caring Filipina for your life partner, becomes your goal ---- YOU then will feel eager to proceed. Our 2x a year, small group trips are by far the most popular method to travel --- and most advantageous to you. (see our "Services" page, paragraph 6 and 7, or ask us). However, should you be unable to travel during either period, we can make arrangements for you to travel alone --- and be assisted by our in-country tour guide. NOTE: some men enjoy the first trip to PHILIPPINES with us, just to meet & associate with their new friends---- and visit tourist attractions and experience night-life.
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